caps & gowns & best friends

you know it's june when you start feeling a little more relaxed (coupled with a touch of recklessness during off hours); there's just something about the summer air that recircuits your body and mind. you also know it's june when there's an overload of wedding photos being curated all over social media mediums (june is the ever-so popular month for weddings) and graduation photos as well. graduates galore!

empire of love

Sitting here at work, wishing I was back at Lightning in a Bottle.

This music festival was such an amazing experience--so much love, you felt it everywhere! It was definitely refreshing to be in a place where the focus wasn't partying hard but spiritual rejuvenation, a break from the everyday to get back in touch with the universe. Met so many amazing individuals, beautiful souls all of you, and I can't wait to go again!

there and back, again.

Well, it certainly has been a while.

I've been meaning to start blogging again, but every time I thought about the act of sitting down and taking the time to write out the words as I feel them...I would get hesitant. Admittedly, I've been denying myself the joy of writing for quite some time and now that I want to get back into practice I get stuck. Words used to come so easily to me, but now I'm not so sure. Maybe I've silenced that part of me for too long.

24.

I've been very silent lately, using my time to rearrange a few things about my life and the contents of what I'm about to share with the world through the internet (coming real soon, I promise!). Finding, or rather making, time for myself and my passions has proved itself to be a bit more of a difficult task than I thought--working full-time drains my days and it's much more easier to succumb to lethargy (shameful of me to say) once I set foot into my home. However, I've been pensive lately, writing lists and setting goals, both long and short term, and I've also been getting quite restless in my own skin as I'm seemingly watching the days go by.

My birthday passed a little over a week ago and I think it finally hit me that I'm nearing a quarter century. Twenty-four seems a little daunting, given where I thought I would be at this age and where I really am now. Before, this would be enough to send me spiraling down, but right now I'm at a place with myself where I understand that this is the ebb and flow of life. Things don't go according to plan, life happens the way it wants to and it's either I learn to adjust to its constant changes or I get left behind.

In retrospect, however, there are things I'm not proud of. Actions that weren't thought through, things I've said fueled by emotion, things I haven't said out of consideration.. Growing and maturing is a painstaking process, and it's hard having to constantly keep reminding yourself to move forward and on, to realize that you need to cut certain things and people out of your life in order to do so. Life's too short for you to worry about things and/or people who don't do anything for your own growth.

I'm not going to sit here and type out some profound entry on how gaining a year to my age has helped me figure shit out. I'm nowhere close to figuring my life out, or even myself at that. To be honest, thinking about what the future holds scares the fuck out of me. But I know what I'm going to work towards, I clearly see who I want to be by the next couple of years and I also know that I'm more than capable of rolling with whatever right hook or roundhouse kick life might have in store for me.

Right now, I'm thankful that I've lived to see another year. Right now, I thank the universe for granting me another breath to fill my lungs and I thank the sun and the moon and the stars for the strength I've found in myself, much thanks to the nights I've been through.

a little reminder

"we all have good days and bad days.

no one has the perfect life we think they lead.

we revel in things that make us happy and are

inspired to be better to the people we love,

but we also get annoyed with ourselves over

our faults and occasionally show fits of

anger or jealousy.

it's okay to be upset or frustrated,

just like it's okay to be happy and in love.

feel everything.

you can't sustain if you always try to

be perfect for everyone around you.

show moments of weakness, be inconsistent,

and throw an occasional tantrum when everything

just happens to go wrong on the same day...

but wake up the next morning and try to

improve one thing, no matter how tiny

or insignificant it may be.

we can't control everything that happens to us,

but we can change how we happen to others."

words of wisdom from a certain fog i love.

via @karlthefog

habits

some habits are formed from when we're very young,
while others become a part of us as we grow.
there are good ones and bad ones,
ones that benefit you and ones you can really do without.
most times, they gradually become a part of your life
without you even thinking twice about it.

pause

so many words swirl in my mind but i don't have the urge to speak them.

there was a time when i longed to be heard, longed to feel like i mattered and that i made a difference, an impact, in the lives of those who walked in and out of my life. nowadays, i'm no longer desperate for acknowledgement and i don't care much for what others think of my thoughts and actions, much less care whether or not i resonate in the memories of people i myself am beginning to forget.

maybe i can say that i owe it all to time, to my growth, and to the recent experiences i have gained in my days of living. i can't quite put a finger on the way that i have been feeling and the introspections i have made as of late, but i can definitely say that i'm on a good path with myself.

lately, i've been experiencing a dry spell with my creativity but today i've felt a resurgence of my passions. i'm excited to see how the plans i've made with a few friends begin to unfold and manifest themselves.

it's also the beginning of the second phase of 2013. this year, as i keep saying in past posts, have been nothing short of amazing so far and the remaining six months look very promising as well!

changes. lots of them, and they couldn't have come at a more perfect time.

we were just fools sitting under the setting sun

pushing and pulling, ever ready to jump the gun.

long time no blog

excuse the mosquito bite on my forehead, they feasted on my blood when i went camping in sequoia!

hello everyone! it's been a while, hasn't it?

i hope this blogpost finds everyone in good health and great times. in the month and a half that i've been silent, not much has happened. well, i lied, a lot has happened. as i've said in earlier posts, this year so far has been the most eventful in my now twenty-three-and-a-half years of life. i've met loads of new people, made new friends, my days and nights have been filled with amazing company and i love the direction my life is taking when regarding the relationships i have and i am currently treasuring and nurturing. this year has also been the most expensive in spending so far, but i ain't mad--you get what you pay for.

right now, i'm at a place in my life where i'm welcoming change--a change of pace, a change of means to reach the ends, and definitely a change of character. throughout this year, my eyes have opened to many new truths and i am adjusting myself to adapt. there's been a lot of time spent in introspection and (as cliché as it may sound) i'm nowhere near the woman i want to be but i'm well on my way towards her.

a lot of change, brewing inside of me and gurgling outside in my daily life..i'm excited! and i haven't really been shooting much or even partaking in my artistic interest, i kind of lost the groove but i'll be hopping back into soon. sometimes it just feels awesome to take a break and live.

so, until next time, à bientôt!

daphne guinness

yes, yes, she is the direct heiress to the 18th century beer the i love so much.

she is also an artist, socialite, and muse to many designers and artists as well.

i know her best as the muse to the amazing alexander mcqueen (all hail mcqueen!)

i recently found out that her mother was an artist and muse to man ray and dali,

who were daphne's neighbors growing up when her family spent the holidays

in spain.. just imagine! maybe that was the precursor to this woman's surreal

and utterly divine sense of fashion. can you believe she's forty-five?!?!

spiritual retreat

i've been quite taken by the beauty of this place,

and the photos i'm about to share are from my first visit

to joshua tree national park--just two hours away from los angeles.

since this trip we took on a random tuesday in january,
we've all made it a point to go at least once a month.
things get better with each and every visit!

it's always good to take a break from the city every now and then
fill your lungs with better air, take in everything you can with your senses
unplug from society and just go out there to explore the unfamiliar

let's all tune into the universe and reach for our inner indigo child.

queen of procrastination

these days i'm always having to catch up with stuff

like my 2D design color theory midterm-project

(that got blown away in the wind on monday -__-),

all those pictures of joshua tree i wanted to post up,

and editing the photos from past shoots that i haven't touched..

school and work has kind of cluttered my mind as well as..

oh, you know..

back to black

because black seems to dominate my wardrobe

because my attachment to this bodysuit is borderline obsessive

because i'm so happy now that i can tie my awkward mess of hair back

i've dawdled the hours away on mad men and google

now it's time to head out and explore the neighborhood park

(which i haven't stepped foot in since moving to the area)

thoughts

it's been a while since i've actually sat down here, wanting to translate my private thoughts into words so public. there was a time when they used to flow so freely...now, i have to stop, think, make sure of their arrangement before spilling them out onto the keyboard. what's happened to the aspiring writer who couldn't get through the day without expressing herself?

i find myself here again, the place where everything stands so still, passing the time in contemplation. i realize now that i have lost something i once couldn't bear to live without. even now, this feels a little strange, a little forced, and slightly foreign. somewhere along the way, i got caught up with life and my responsibilities, i got caught up with my relationships with people and the worries that come with living without the support of one's parents that i just...forgot. i lost sight of why i moved out in the first place, i lost sight of the dreams i boldly stepped forward to achieve, and i lost sight of myself.

i am in no way lamenting the loss of person i used to be--with the way life is, finding another current in it's flow is expected; dreams change while goals get rearranged, and we as people are constantly reinventing ourselves. the questions i currently have to face are: who am i now? what do i want? what do i aim to achieve? which path do i choose to take?

and of course, the last one would be: what am i afraid of?

in my next life, i hope i can be the wind

free, flowing and at times a force to be reckoned with

lightly caressing all those living, kissing their skin with a cool breeze

and carrying the familiar scent of a lover long forgotten as i dance through sun-streaked hair

confessions, part one

when people ask me to show them my work,

i get a little nervous and a bit embarrassed of what

is available to show them. mainly because it's just your

typical "pretty face in great location" type shit and it's

nowhere close to the artistic vision i have for my photography.

i can't wait until i have the time to execute all these plans in my head.

kiss the sound and pound your senses

because i love deep house. because this song gets me groovin'. because it reminds me of manic monday. because i've pretty much had it on repeat. & because i haven't made a music post in a while.

beyond wonderland

i know it's only march, but 2013 has been a

very eventful year thus far: trips to joshua tree

once, even twice, a month. random nights spent

with great company. a weekend up north, an EDM

event, and work + school in between! it's definitely

been nonstop fun since welcoming the year of the snake.

last weekend, my friend at insomniac hooked me and the man

up with a couple of guest wristbands for beyond wonderland.

it was definitely a new way of experiencing a rave--backstage

access? free drinks? AND ACCESSIBLE BATHROOMS?!

if heaven had raves, that is what it would be like.

queen's domain, standing VIP

a weekend in SF

from LA to the bay, march 8-10

beautiful bay bridge

  The Bay Lights - Artist Rendering 2 from Words Pictures Ideas on Vimeo.

this makes me that much more excited about the weekend.